Area of Law: Family Law
Answer # 104
What happens when you separate?Region: Ontario Answer # 104
Once spouses begin to live separately, important legal rights and obligations arise that affect finances, property, and children. Separation is the first step in what can be a complex and sometimes costly sequence of events.
What is separation?
A separation is recognized in law as soon as two spouses are living separately and apart under circumstances where there is no reasonable prospect that they will resume cohabitation. This usually means that one spouse has moved out of the family home. Even if the spouses are still living in the same residence, in some circumstances, they could be legally separated if they are considered to be living “separate and apart” and have ceased to engage in any conjugal relationship. Simply living together for reasons of economic necessity will not preclude the finding of separation, and severe incompatibility within a household will not necessarily mean a separated household. There must be both physical separation and a withdrawal by one or both spouses from the matrimonial obligation with the intent of destroying the marriage. If possible, you should seek legal advice before separating. The things you do at the time of separation can have a significant impact on who gets custody of the children, possession of the family home, and division of property.
Rights and obligations that arise upon separation
Once a couple separates, there are five basic rights that arise.
- You can apply to equalize net family property or, on an interim basis, apply to obtain possession of property or to preserve property,
- You can apply for financial support for yourself and your children,
- You can apply for custody of the children,
- You can apply for visitation rights, and
- You can apply to live in the family home without your spouse even if you are not the one who owns it. Obtaining an order that would require your spouse to live somewhere else is called “an order for exclusive possession” and is mainly used for spouses who are experiencing abusive situations.
What property can you take?
When a married couple separates, the spouses will need to know what they are each entitled to. Ordinarily, separating couples will agree on the personal property to which each is entitled. In the absence of agreement each spouse is entitled to take anything that he or she owned before the marriage. It is important to remember that ordinarily the Family Law Act of Ontario does not change rights of ownership in respect of either personal property or any other asset. For example, bank accounts owned by each spouse will remain their separate property. Ordinarily the proceeds of a joint bank account will be divided.
Eventually, all the assets owned by each individual spouse, and those owned jointly will be dealt with. The net values, and any equalization payment that will need to be paid from one spouse to the other, will be determined.
What about the matrimonial home?
Usually when spouses separate they will sell or otherwise dispose of their matrimonial home. Generally speaking, the equity in the home at the time of separation is treated as belonging to both spouses regardless of whose name is on the title. For example, if the house is registered in the name of the husband alone, the equity in the home will still belong to both spouses. This does not require the owning spouse to sell the home and, indeed, any post-separation increase belongs to the owning spouse who also assumes the risk of any decline in value.
There are occasions when one spouse may leave the matrimonial home while the other remains. Under certain circumstances the court can order that the contents of the home remain in the home until the matrimonial affairs have been settled. In the absence of a court order it is not unusual for a parent departing with a child to take whatever possessions are necessary to look after the child.
For more information on marriage laws in Ontario, refer to the Ministry of the Attorney General.
Getting the advice and legal help you need
If you are about to separate or have recently separated, a lawyer can help you understand your legal rights and ensure that your interests are protected. It is advisable to get the legal help that’s right for you.
If you are considering representing yourself in a family law matter, you may wish to get help from The Family Law Coach. Their experienced family law lawyers can provide information, legal assistance, advice and practical tips to help you prepare your case and improve your outcome. They provide specific services for fixed prices, and you only pay for the services you want.
If you are considering hiring a lawyer to represent you, for legal advice and assistance regarding separation, divorce and other family law matters, contact a family law lawyer.
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